Quick Answer: Build stay using the three Ds: Duration, Distance, and Distraction — but only one at a time. Start with asking your dog to sit, immediately reward, ask for 2 seconds more, reward again. Build duration in the same place before adding distance. Add distraction only after duration and distance are reliable. Adding all three at once is the most common mistake.
The Three Ds
- Duration — how long the dog holds the stay. Start at 2-3 seconds and build gradually. This is the foundation — get this solid before adding anything else.
- Distance — how far you move away. Once you can get 30 seconds of duration, take one step back. Reward. Build from there.
- Distraction — what's happening in the environment. Only add distractions after duration and distance are reliable in a quiet setting.
The Release Word
Always end a stay with a clear release word — 'okay,' 'free,' or 'release.' Dogs who don't have a release word often break stay on their own terms. The release tells them the behavior is finished and they can move.
Make It Worth It
A stay held under real distraction deserves a real reward. Keep high-value treats ready. End sessions with a frozen lick mat.
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